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Barbara Ann Becker Harbaugh, formerly of Ocean City, NJ and a longtime resident of Vero Beach, FL, passed away suddenly on May 6, 2026, at the age of 84, leaving behind heavy hearts.
She was the beloved daughter of the late George and Catherine Becker.
Barbara invested her life in those she loved and will be remembered as a caring mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, and loyal friend to many. She was known for always being just a phone call away, for her warm smile, signature pink lipstick, and her gift for making others feel heard and cared for. Barbara loved checking in to stay connected and keep up with the lives of those she deeply cherished. Every conversation with Barbara was sure to include both laughter and tears, often accompanied by her unmistakable giggle.
She dedicated many years of her career to The Moorings, where her coworkers became like a second family. Barbara especially enjoyed sunshine-filled days, happy hours, and sharing wonderful meals with family and friends.
Barbara was the loving mother of Lisa Harbaugh and was preceded in death by her children, Lynne and Bobby. She was the dear sister of Julie Becker (Bill) and sister-in-law of Suzy Becker, and was preceded in death by her siblings George Becker, Jr. and Cathie Daley, and Cathie’s husband Bill. She was the cherished grandmother of Danny Williams and a devoted aunt to Debbie Becker (late Randy), the late George Becker III, Russell Hendricks (Lane), Sharon Gallen (late Michael), Billy Hendricks (Kelli), Kate Daley-Yankanich (Bill), Colleen Keaveney, as well as an admired great-aunt to many nieces and nephews.
A celebration of life will be held in Ocean City at a later date, with details to follow. Interment will be private.
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
© 2026 Lowther Funeral Home. All Rights Reserved.
debra kappel - Moorings Club
May 18, 2026, 10:06 am
We will miss dearest Barbara and her forever smile. The Kappel Family
Vince & Barbara DeTurris - Friends
May 18, 2026, 10:52 am
Barbara was a core member of the Moorings Family. Barbara and I will miss her smiles and hugs. Love ❤️ & ! Barb & Vince
Joanne & Dennis Ciletti - Friend
May 18, 2026, 11:28 am
She will be truly missed. Barbara was always a shining light in the Moorings Pro Shop.
David Vogt - Friend
May 18, 2026, 11:37 am
Barbara was always a shining light at the Moorings Golf Pro Shop for many years! Her Obit is correct. You would laugh, cry and wonder in a lengthy conversation with Barbara. She was positive, and seemed genuinely interested in seeing you!! God blessed us with Barbara!!!
Anne Lerchen Hanna - Moorings member, friend
May 18, 2026, 11:46 am
Barbara was the best – friendly, caring, getting to know multiple generations, always a smile! She was a wonderful addition to the Moorings family. I loved stopping by the Moorings golf shop to catch up on “life” with her. Her obituary captured her genuine spirit and love for the Moorings, NJ and her family! She will be missed. May special memories be comforting to her family and all who knew her!
Suzanne Scully - Friend
May 18, 2026, 12:48 pm
Barbara put a smile on all of our faces! She was a joy to be with and a blessing for the Moorings. And who could believe her age? Rest in peace darling girl! Sue Scully
Kim Gardner - Friend and coworker
May 18, 2026, 2:28 pm
My earliest memory of Barbara was the warm hug she gave me on my very first day working at The Moorings. That moment perfectly reflected the kind, welcoming, and caring person she was. Barbara was truly loved by all of us and was such a dedicated part of our golf shop family for so many years. Along with her warmth and kindness, she had a wonderful sense of humor that could make anyone smile and instantly feel at ease. Her friendly spirit, laughter, and genuine care for others touched everyone who knew her. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered always. With heartfelt sympathy, Kim Gardner
Stan Ziemski - Friend and Moorings member
May 18, 2026, 4:25 pm
Barbara always had wonderful smile, always knew not only your name, but all the family members who visited. A great, friendly Jersey girl who is missed! Judy and Stan Ziemski
Lydia Lander - Friend
May 18, 2026, 4:49 pm
Please know how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Barbie’s obituary is such a fitting tribute. As I read it, so many wonderful memories of times I had with Barbie came flooding back, and I found myself smiling. She brought so much warmth, laughter, and joy to those around her. I know she will be missed terribly. Keeping your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.
LORI LANG - Moorings member
May 18, 2026, 5:53 pm
Barbara was always smiling and a wonderful person.I would go into the golf shop a lot and she was always helpful! I missed her when she stopped working and glad she was having some time to herself! Beautiful person and will be remembered fondly…
Don and Bonnie siok - Friend
May 19, 2026, 12:42 am
Dearest Barbie, we will miss you and never will forget all those good, fun times, don and bonnie
Bruno Gallia - Friend
May 19, 2026, 12:43 am
I am deeply saddened as I just heard of Barbara’s passing. We got to know each other from fourth grade attending St Laurence school in Highland Park, when she and her family arrived. Her parties for us kids are still remembered as was her geniality, humor and beauty. May she rest in peace in Jesus’s arms. ❤️