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Susan Wray Sullivan, 96, of Orchid, FL, and Wilson, WY, passed away peacefully at her Orchid Island home on August 18, 2026. Born to William Donald and Marguerite (nee Macdonald) Wray on November 8, 1929, in Glen Ridge, NJ, she was the middle of three daughters. She was predeceased by her sisters, Donna Wray Dromeshauser and Patricia Wray Keller.
Susan’s childhood was filled with love and adventure. Her father, a former Marine, instilled the importance of physical fitness and competition early on in her life. As a result, she developed a lifelong passion for sports and the great outdoors including tennis, golf, paddle tennis, and fishing. She spent her childhood summers at Wray Lodge on Livingston Lake in the Adirondacks and in Duxbury, MA, and for a few summers worked at Chatham Bars Inn on Cape Cod.
Susan was a proud graduate of Wells College, Aurora, NY, where she met many friends and remained a devoted alumna and generous supporter for more than sixty years. Her dedication to the school culminated in the creation of the Susan Wray and Pike H. Sullivan Center for Business and Entrepreneurship, and she was awarded the rarely given Wells College President’s Medal.
She married Pike Houston Sullivan, an investment banker, in March of 1952, and raised their two children in Glen Ridge, where they had both grown up. She volunteered at the hospital for several years and became a theater and ballet enthusiast. They spent many years summering at Greenwood Lake, NJ, and Lake George, NY, where competitive Starboat racing and tennis tournaments occupied their days, creating wonderful memories. She was a faithful NY Giants and Rangers fan and could recall the names of every player going back to the 1950s.
Susan and her husband traveled the world, meeting many domestic and foreign dignitaries. Adventures in Africa and Ireland, as well as fly-fishing trips to New Zealand and Argentina, became some of her most beloved memories. At family celebrations, she often recounted her experiences in captivating stories filled with detail and humor.
The couple further explored their passion for all things outdoors when they moved to Wilson, WY, in 1991. There they established many friendships over nearly forty years and became true stewards within the community. Their philanthropic efforts benefited many Wyoming charities and was particularly evident in their longstanding support of the National Wildlife Museum, where the lobby is named in their honor. Susan was also a devoted and enthusiastic donor to the Snow Leopard Trust, the Teton Music Festival, the local animal shelter PAWS, and the Carson Scholars Fund, among many others.
Susan adored her English Labrador retrievers and raised a number of beautiful dogs throughout her life. Her greatest joy, however, was her family. She loved to tell stories of her childhood during the Depression and greatly valued her time spent with grandchildren. She will be remembered for her exceptional generosity and beloved for her warm empathy, her quick humor, and a great sense of style.
Susan is survived by her son, Pike H. Sullivan III, and her daughter, Marguerite Wray Sullivan, and twin grandchildren, Lucy and Andrew, as well as many nieces and nephews who loved her dearly. She will be deeply missed.
To celebrate Susan’s generosity, the family invites you to send a gift in her name to the St. Augustine Wild Reserve. Please learn about this wonderful sanctuary at www.sawildreserve.org/about-us.
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
Pearl Lawrence - Former Employee
August 22, 2026, 9:52 pm
Condolences to the bereaved family on their loss. Sleep on in quiet peace Mrs. Sullivan. Gone but not forgotten. May her precious memories live in the hearts of everyone ♥️✝️
Robin H. Lightner - friend
August 23, 2026, 1:44 pm
Meg, we met many years ago altho have not seen each other in quite a while. So very sorry to hear about your Mom. She was such a special lady, lovely and as she would say “a DEARIE”. She wil definiely be missed. Wouldn’t be great if we could go back 20 years or so and give all those we love a hug. Sue would be at the top of the list. Will definitely send a donation to the St. Ausustine Reserve. Love, Robin Lightner
Steve Terhune - Friend for life
August 23, 2026, 5:44 pm
Sue, we go back 65 years to you were the most beautiful woman in Awosting. I feel so lucky that we reconnected in the past 2 years and spent quality time reminiscing. Meg, my friend since 11 yrs old has done so much for you, with love and dedication . Although I was a bit intimidated by him in my youth, I now realize that your husband Pike was an amazing person, a real “man’s man”. I feel a bit envious of the success of your marriage. You were the last survivor of my parent’s age group. If they were here, they would say, “bon voyage” as you travel to the other side. Give my best to Pike when you get there.
Jim Gersack - Friend
August 25, 2026, 5:29 pm
You’re leaving a rather large hole in my life, Sue. I will greatly miss our usual conversations and my annual visits to FL… take care “Tiger Room”! I’m so grateful for your friendship and loyalty over the many years – we enjoyed a lot of laughs, and checked the road trip to Yellowstone off the list along the way. My best to Meg, Pike, Andrew, and Lucy as well – you’re such a great and powerful team. All my best. Jim
Jim Casciano - Friend
August 28, 2026, 2:29 pm
Meg and Pike- I’m very sorry for your loss. What a wonderful life and beautifully written obituary for your mom. I remember fondly the Greenwood Lake days and your parents as pillars of the community. They were certainly tolerant of us bratty kids, especially as we became misbehaving teenagers. Back in the day, Buddy Mossman used to tell stories about his teenage antics with your dad, and Doc Horton on the Lake in the 1930s. Glad they passed on the magic. God bless you and your family. Jim C.
Kate Colleran Minelian
September 1, 2026, 5:12 pm
To Sue’s family, I am sorry to learn of her passing. No matter how many years it has been since I saw any of you, I have such fond memories of her- her generosity and humor as well as her beauty. My deepest condolences to Pike and Meg