Date of Service:
October 30, 2021
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Lois A. Oehme was born April 12, 1942, in Cornwall, New York. She entered into heaven on August 12, 2021 from her home in Vero Beach, FL. She was a resident of Vero Beach for 28 years. She enjoyed volunteering, playing golf, and spending time with her family. A large part of her life was dedicated to being a loving mother and wife. She was admired by many friends and family.
Lois was predeceased by her parents, Francis and Gertrude O’Donnell; her sister, Margaret McCue; and her son, Richard Oehme, Jr.
Living relatives include her loving husband of 61 years, Richard Oehme, Sr.; daughter-in-law, Cynthia Oehme; grandchildren, Tanner Oehme and Riley Oehme; great-grandchild, Landon Oehme; niece, JoAnna Martin (who through the years was like a daughter); brothers-in-laws and wives, Chester and Jillian Oehme, Robert and Gloria Oehme, and Lee and Veronica Oehme; plus, six nieces and nephews.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, October 30th at 2:00 p.m. The location is Christ By The Sea United Methodist Church, 3755 Hwy. A1A, Vero Beach. Florida. There will be a virtual service available at the same time online. The Link will be posted on the Church webpage, “cbtsumc.org” a few days before the service.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Lois’s name to the VNA Hospice of Vero Beach, FL.
Arrangements by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
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Gloria Oehme - Brother and sister-in-law Bob and Gloria
August 13, 2021, 9:16 pm
Our loving thoughts and prayers are with everyone . Lois will be missed greatly .
Darlene Darling - Friend
August 15, 2021, 10:58 pm
Thoughts and prayers are with you all. I knew her from the Hallmark Shop. We had an instant bond, as we also had son that died. She was a gentle ,caring person. She will be missed. God has another wonderful angel.
Danielle Donahue - None
August 18, 2021, 12:38 pm
To the Oehme family – We are so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers from CT.
Jim Capicotto - family friend
August 18, 2021, 3:06 pm
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers. are with you.
Jane & Bill Coleman - Vero Beach friend
August 25, 2021, 11:52 am
What fond memories of Lois at Hawk’s Nest! She was so welcoming to Jane as a new member in 2006 and a new 18 hole golfer. She will be missed by all. May the family find peace knowing she is at rest now. God be with you as you adjust to her passing.
Alice and Bob Boisseau - Friend
September 9, 2021, 7:08 pm
From the early 80’s in Louisville, we became great friends that traveled together and visit with at her homes in Florida and North Carolina Lois was joy to be with and her love of life was a treasure for us. We will miss her but not forget her smile and laughter.
Janet & Frank Jezek - Cousin's wife
September 9, 2021, 7:21 pm
We send our deepest sympathy to Dick and all the family. We have some wonderful memories of Lois when we visited them in Maggie Valley and all the lunch dates she organized in Palm Beach.
Pat and Pauline Donahoe - long time friend
September 9, 2021, 7:38 pm
Dick, our heart is so heavy just looking at her picture. She was so Beautiful and kind and the most precious friend I had. She is so missed and I know your heart is so heavy. She loved you so much. See you soon.
John and Anne Beystehner - Friends
September 9, 2021, 9:20 pm
We loved Lois! We were fortunate to be friends and neighbors in Louisville for a number of years. She was quick to laugh, kind and thoughtful. Our children loved her as well. So many Christmas Eves Dick and Lois spent with us putting together all those toys! Dick, we are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Lynne and Shelly James - friends
September 10, 2021, 9:57 am
My dear Lois, Until we meet again… We will remember your gentle, quiet , comforting spirit and your amazing sense of humor, your keen mind and the great fellowship that we enjoyed immensely each time we saw you and Dick. Your absence here is your presence with our Lord. May God be with all the people that love you at this time. Our deepest condolences to Dick.
Melissa
September 13, 2021, 5:07 pm
Mr. Oehme, My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I can only hope that your decades of cherished memories bring you some joy and inner peace. I remember Lois’s darling smile and sparkling eyes that perfectly accommodated her sharp wit. May the memories you shared live forever in your heart.
Harvie Strickland - friend
September 13, 2021, 6:31 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with Dick and all the Oehme family. Lois was a wonderful, caring lady and I am glad I got to know her.
James and Debra Kappel - neighbors and friends
September 16, 2021, 11:30 am
What a blessing to have known Lois. Our hearts feel for Dick. She is in Paradise.
Aileen & Wendell Hawes - Former Employee
September 23, 2021, 5:16 pm
Dick, so very sorry to hear of Lois’s passing, and our prayers for strength, comfort and peace are with you during this sad time. Lois was a sweet, sweet spirit and a lovely model for all of us at UPS while you were in Louisville.
John and Susan Auld - Friend
October 17, 2021, 11:52 pm
John and Susan Auld. We have been friends with Lois and Dick since 1960, and served as matron of honor and best man at their wedding on July 1, 1960 in Central Valley, New York. Lois and Dick have been wonderful life long friends. We remember Lois and her good humor, friendship, and great meals.