Date of Service:
October 23, 2025
Date of Interment:
October 29, 2025
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With grace, warmth, and unwavering love, Anita passed away peacefully at the age of 87. A woman whose heart beat strongest for her family and friends, she leaves behind a legacy of kindness, resilience, and deep connection.
Born in Brooklyn, New York, Anita lived a life marked by devotion and quiet strength. Though she endured the profound loss of her four beloved children Anthony, Frankie, Michael and Jeffrey she remained a pillar of love and support to those around her. Her joy was found in the laughter of her grandchildren and niece and the blessing of watching them grow into adulthood. Trips to Long Island to visit her dear friend Phyllis, stories shared over coffee with friends, family gatherings, canasta games, visits with her dear friend Marilyn and the simple beauty of everyday moments filled her life and soothed her heart.
Anita was a wonderful cook whose kitchen was the heart of her home and meals were lovingly prepared. Whether it was a holiday feast or a simple weekday supper or her delicious soup for a sick friend or family member, her food nourished more than bodies- it brought people together, sparked memories and wrapped loved ones in warmth.
She is survived by her cherished sister Charlene David, devoted daughter-in-law Katy Palma, two loving grandchildren AJ Palma and Krissy Wykeham, two great-grandchildren Griffin and Jasper Wykeham who brought her endless delight, her dear niece Cara Brown, and her great-niece Kylie and great-nephew Camden who always made her smile.
Among her treasured possessions was a pocket watch engraved with the words “So Little Time”- a quiet reflection of her deep appreciation for life’s fleeting beauty and the moments that mattered most.
Her home was a haven of warmth, her table always open, and her heart always full. She will be remembered for her gentle spirit, her hopeful faith in the goodness of people, and the way she made everyone feel like family.
A memorial service will be held at Indian River Estates (The East Building) in Vero Beach on Thursday, October 23, 2025, at 11:00 a.m., followed by a reception. All are welcome.
A graveside service will be held 11:30 a.m., Wednesday, October 29, 2025, at Pinelawn Memorial Park, 2030 Wellwood Ave, Farmingdale, NY 11735. Please go to the main office where family and friends will gather prior to the graveside service.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to St Jude Children’s Hospital or to Temple Beth Shalom in Vero Beach in tribute to her lifelong commitment to love and care and spiritual support.
Her memory will live on in the stories we tell, the traditions we carry, and the love she gave so freely.
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
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Phyllis Saslow - Friend - Sister
October 15, 2025, 7:10 pm
My dearest Anita,
It’s hard to put into words what your friendship meant. I’ll always treasure the times we shared — , the laughter, and the love we shared. Though you’re no longer here, you live in my heart. You’ll always be deeply loved and dearly missed.
Jan Pilon - Friend
October 16, 2025, 12:53 am
Charlene, we are very sorry for your loss. While I didn’t know Anita well, she seemed to be a sweet and thoughtful woman. What a beautiful obituary you wrote!