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Following her battle with cancer, Cathi D. DuMars, passed away on Monday, January 11, 2016, surrounded by family and friends, while under the compassionate care of VNA Hospice, Vero Beach.
Cathi was born on May 25, 1958 in Vero Beach to father, Clayton Votrobek and mother, Florence Votrobek.
Cathi started her professional career at Mecca Nursing Home as a CNA. She later switched careers and went into the automotive field, where she worked for Fred Coyne Chevrolet and then for seventeen years Cathi helped her husband, Pat, run �Pat�s Auto Parts� on 12th Street.
Cathi loved to be on the golf course with her husband, was an avid NASCAR fan, and loved baking for her family and friends. Cathi, along with her husband supported Amara Shrine Temple, where she enjoyed working the fundraisers, where all proceeds went to the Shriners Hospitals for burned and crippled children.
Cathi is survived by her husband, Patrick A. DuMars; daughter, Melissa (Ben) Mattek of Vero Beach, sons, Benny Schwey of Vermont and Clayton Schwey of Vero Beach; three grandchildren, Nelly Mattek & Bailey Mattek and Hannah Schwey; mother, Florence Votrobek, brother, Danny Votrobek and sister, Ruby Curtis; half brother, Billy Sudbrock and half sister, Shannon Skinner; lifelong friend and dearest cousin, Laura Votrobek; three nieces, Barbara, Elaina, and Hope Curtis; nephew, Daniel (Joy) Votrobek and their daughter, Gabrielle.
Cathi was predeceased by her father, Clayton Votrobek.
Cathi remained a brave, strong and courageous woman throughout her final months. She was a warm and caring woman and was loved by all who knew her. Her grace and humor selflessness, and love she shared with all those around her will forever be missed.
The family would like to thank the doctors (especially Dr. Everhardt �the best doctor in the country�), nurses, and staff of Indian River Medical Center fourth floor, and to express our gratitude for the kindness and dedication from the entire staff of VNA Hospice and also to Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory for handling the arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Cathi�s name to VNA Hospice of IRC, 1110 35th Lane, Vero Beach, FL 32960.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.
Cathi�s last wish was for everyone to remember, �Tomorrow is promised to no one,� so create a happy and peaceful environment, explore life every day, have freedom of the spirit through laughter, trust in what you love, beautify your smile with kind words and treasure the small things in life.
Laura - Cousin
January 13, 2016, 11:46 am
It was an honor to have Cathi in my life. She was my best friend, and I loved her so. She was a huge light in my life due to all her great qualities. I will miss her so, as she left to go onto bigger and better things. I love you Cathi! You are my treasured cousin.
B Mattek - Son-In-Law
January 13, 2016, 11:46 am
What an honor to have known such a pleasantly beautiful women. I truly thank God for her existence, since without her life, there would be no way that my life could be complete. She was woven from fabrics of pure joy and love, always remaining selfless, by never putting herself first; remaining loyal and dedicated to those she loved. I admired the unity of marriage completed by her with her soulmate, Patrick Dumars, and I gleaned an understanding of partnership from it. Together, they led by example, never wavering from their commitments, modeling the way a true marriage should be held, upholding the definition of “two as one.” As one ponders the meaningfulness of life, one could reference her as an example selfless fulfillment, such that of a Saint. I am so joyous that I had the opportunity to have told her thank you for my life, by giving life to her spectacularly kind and beautiful daughter, Melissa, to marry and honor, and as a result, I have two of the best children from her existence. I promise you that our marriage and children will hold you as the image of what a Grandma should be! My condolences to Patrick, I feel devastated over this and will always hold you in a special place in my heart, always appreciating you advising me in a thoughtful and successful manor. Every day that I look upon my family, I will be reminded by their mixture of you, and I am blessed for that! I love you and miss you! My condolences to the family for and my deepest sorry your loss