Cheryl “Cher” Lynn Kothrade-Waller

Cheryl “Cher” Lynn Kothrade-Waller

June 03, 1951 ~ June 19, 2023

Date of Service:
October 07, 2023

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Cheryl “Cher” Lynn Kothrade-Waller, 72, drew her last quiet and peaceful breath on June 19, 2023, at home in Vero Beach, FL, in bed, her adoring husband beside her, after a brave, decade-long struggle against Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP). PSP is a rare neurological disorder within the Parkinson’s family of diseases.

Cheryl was born on June 3, 1951, in Milwaukee, WI, to Walter Frederick Kothrade and Ruth Esther Mundt Kothrade, both deceased.

Cheryl grew up in the Milwaukee, WI suburb of Greenfield, was active in the Job’s Daughters (Bethell # 6) and elected their Honored Queen. She graduated from Greenfield High School in 1969 and was a member of The National Honor Society. Cheryl then attended the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and earned a B.A. in Classical Languages in 1973. Cheryl moved to the Washington, DC area and pursued her graduate studies at The George Washington University, where she received an M.A. in Laboratory Science, with a Special Studies concentration in museum conservation in 1977. Cheryl applied her love of museum artifact preservation and her graduate education at both the Milwaukee Museum and at the Smithsonian Museum in Washington DC.

In the early 1980’s, Cheryl took a different career path and entered the field of computers and Information Technology. Cheryl had a successful 30-year career in IT with the federal government. She was an IT Project Manager for the Department of Labor when she retired in 2012.

Cheryl married the love of her life, Bill Waller, in 1998. They lived for 16 years in Silver Spring, MD, less than a mile from the DC line. Cheryl and Bill enjoyed 16 happy and active years in Silver Spring, where they took advantage of all that DC and its environs had to offer. They also loved the ocean and treasured their vacations at the Outer Banks in North Carolina. Cheryl and Bill bought a home in the Walker’s Glen development of Vero Beach in 2008, and they moved there full time in 2014.

Cheryl was a Renaissance woman with many talents. She was a gourmet cook who loved to entertain and serve scrumptious meals to her family and friends. Cheryl also enjoyed painting and gardening. A voracious reader, Cheryl typically had 2 or 3 books on her nightstand at once in the pre-Kindle days.  And she was a wiz at Sudoku. In her later years Cheryl loved to take strolls around the lake in Walker’s Glen with Bill and their precious Havanese puppy, Gussie, and to feed the fish and turtles and chat with her neighbors along the way.

Cheryl savored all of life’s sweet fruits, but her truest and greatest love was her family. Besides Bill, her loving husband of 25 years, Cheryl’s lovely smile and gentle soul will be dearly missed by her family. Cheryl is survived by Bill’s daughter, Amber; her brothers Dale Kothrade (Suzanne) and Dean Kothrade (Pam); her sister-in-law Bonnie Thomas (Tom); her nephews Kendall Kothrade (Abby), Warren Kothrade, Marshall Kothrade, Christian Kinders (Melinda), Casey Kinders (Teresa), and Michael Thomas; and her nieces Nicole Granados-Saric (Zoran), Kelly Genske, and Lauren Wilson (Brian). Cheryl is also survived by many grandnieces and grandnephews.

Cheryl will also be mourned and missed by her many great friends from all over the U.S., and by her wonderful neighbors and friends from the Walker’s Glen community and elsewhere in Vero Beach, FL.

There will be a celebration of Cheryl’s life at Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, 1655 27th Street, Vero Beach, FL 32960 on Saturday, October 7, 2023 at 1:00 p.m.

 

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions in Cheryl’s name to the VNA Hospice of the Treasure Coast, or to the Steinway Concert Series at Silo Hill.

VNA Hospice of the Treasure Coast

Here is their link:                    Ways to Give – VNA & Hospice Foundation | Vero Beach, FL

Steinway Series at Silo Hill. The Steinway Series holds concerts at Silo Hall, outside Baltimore. The Series was created to show the extent to which music can benefit those who have Parkinson’s. All profits from the Steinway Series concerts are donated to organizations that support Parkinson’s research.

And here is their link:             Steinway Series at Silo Hill 

 

Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.


Date of Service:
October 07, 2023

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Jill Maynard - Neighbor

June 30, 2023, 8:58 pm

Bill, I’m so sorry for your loss❤️! If there is anything I can do, don’t hesitate to call!! Cheryl was always such a kind sweet woman!

Doris and Paul - Friends

June 30, 2023, 11:54 pm

Our condolences. We know how difficult it is to lose some one you loved. Our prayers for you in this a time of such loss.

Robert Lijewski - Friend

July 1, 2023, 12:29 am

I lost contact with Cheryl in 1970, her friend Kris informed me of her passing. Reading her obituary, she had a full life with a lot of accomplishments. I am sorry that her illness cut a vibrant life short. My sympathies are extended to her husband Bill.

Jan and Bill Kerechek - Walkers Glen Friend/neighbor

July 4, 2023, 6:10 am

Bill, we are so sorry for your loss. I had so many fun times with Cheryl. We shopped, went to the movies, ladies luncheons, playing Rummicube and more. We always had lots of laughs and Cheryl’s smile could light up a room. I will miss seeing her when I return to Vero, but her smile will live on with Bill and little Gussie will meet us with excitement.

Terri Mitts - Caretaker

July 23, 2023, 4:00 pm

I had the opportunity to care for Cheryl the past 2 years, she had the most beautiful smile that could shine through anyone. I’m thankful to have been chosen to care for such a wonderful soul..

Barry and Geri Hummel

August 17, 2023, 6:09 pm

Bill,we are so Sorry for your loss

alma citron - eric citron

August 18, 2023, 2:43 pm

we did not know cheryl too well, but we RE VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS and we miss her wheeling down the street, alma and eric citron 4430 23rd way . we would like to celebrate her life in october.if you have to go somewhere we would gladly watch your dog

Carol Crawford - Friend

August 18, 2023, 4:33 pm

Dearest Cheryl, a neighbor and dear friend here in Silver Spring. I remember the laughs we had as we tiled my Mom’s back porch and the love we shared for our wonderful dogs. Even after they moved, I relished the Nags Head get together. I will always cherish her memory…bless.

Lynn and Trip Strauss - Old friend

August 19, 2023, 7:16 pm

Dear Bill, You know how I feel about Cheryl. She was my dear, dear friend for 52 years. I feel a hole in my heart now that she’s gone. Trip loved her as much as I did and knew her for almost 40 years. We both miss her much and have her picture in the kitchen. I look at her picture every single day and think of her. I treasure all my memories of Cheryl and am grateful she was in my life as long as she was. Love, Lynn and Trip

John Callahan - Fellow Lawyer

August 22, 2023, 10:46 pm

Bill – Just a quick post to let you know that I care and that I am thinking about you. It was years ago but it seems like just the other day that I bumped into you and Cheryl on the sidewalk one evening in Chinatown-D.C. when the two of you were heading to the Shakespeare Theatre to catch a play. She was very happy that evening and the two of you seemed perfect together. I am so sorry for your loss, Bill. I look forward to catching up in the fall during your next trip to the D.C. area.

Aprille Sherman - Your paralegal

September 14, 2023, 8:23 pm

Dear Bill, I have been thinking about you and Cheryl and how hard it is to lose someone you love. I only met Cheryl a few times at Mooring events, but it’s clear the world has lost a rock star! How perfect you two were for each other. Ian was sorry to hear your loss, too. Sending love your way and wishing I could be there for the memorial service. Hope to see you again some day.

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