Date of Service:
March 05, 2022
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Jerry John Ray, 79, died February 18, 2022, at home, surrounded by family in Vero Beach, Florida.
He was born in Detroit, Michigan and moved from Michigan to Florida in 1999.
Jerry was a veteran of the United States Air Force.
He retired from Chrysler Corporation, Auburn Hills, MI, as an engineering cost estimator, after many years of loyal service.
Jerry was a member of Our Savior Lutheran Church, Vero Beach.
Survivors include his wife, Kathryn Aho Ray of 47 years; children, Michelle (Edward) Seagraves, Michael (Melissa) Ray, Joanne (Christopher) Marks, Scott (Dhana) Harding, and Jill (Michael Ladd) Harding. He is also survived by 14 grandchildren; 11 great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.
Jerry was predeceased by his father, John Ray and his mother, Ethelyne Ray, and sisters, Diane (Duane) Lail and Robin Atkins.
A Memorial Service will be held 3:00 p.m., Saturday, March 5, 2022, at Our Savior Lutheran Church, 1850 Sixth Ave., Vero Beach.
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
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Scott Harding - Son
February 23, 2022, 11:46 pm
#1 Dad and I miss him greatly. Love you, Dad.
Jill Harding - Daughter
February 24, 2022, 12:06 pm
My Sweet, sweet Daddy…my heart hurts so much knowing I can’t see you and your beautiful smile! I know you are made whole, and watching down from Heaven! I love you!
Kathryn Ray - Wife
February 26, 2022, 1:04 am
The love of my life, Jerry, has left me all alone. I am a lost person. For 47 years we were always together no matter what was going on. I have the best memories ever, but I miss you more than words can say. I want to hold you again and tell you “I love you”. You were the best husband and always will be.
JoAnne Marks - Daughter
February 27, 2022, 5:20 am
If I could tell a story, it would be the greatest ever told. Of a kind and loving father who had a heart of gold. I’m hurt but I’m not sad for you, you are free to serve, in doing what you love to do as promised in the word, to spend your days in glory without the pain, the fear and strife. You’ve moved on and shed all old regrets that may have haunted your old life. I can’t wait to rest beside you, in the house God built for you, we can share our stories from the past and start our lives anew, We’ll have our day together Dad to spend just you and me, til then please let our father know to treat you tenderly. All my Love Dad, Jo.
Michelle Ann Ray-Seagraves - First Daughter
February 27, 2022, 3:13 pm
My Dad who was there the day I was born and never left! One fond memory when everything fell apart he used to place a loving short note on a napkin in my lunch bag. I wish I had those napkins today and more time. He did say , “you have to be strong because I won’t always be here to hold your hand!” Time to be strong. Families are important!
Pam & Larry Paul - friends
February 27, 2022, 6:44 pm
Dear Kathy, Our hearts go out to you & your family as you grieve the loss of Jerry. He was one of a kind & we will miss him. Now he stands in the light of God’s amazing grace. May he rest in peace & may God give you the strength to carry on. We love you, our dear friend. Sincerely, with love, Pam & Larry
David, Kathy curtis - Friend
March 2, 2022, 11:53 pm
Dear Kathy,and family, we will always remember the fun times we had camping together, we pray for you and hope your memories will heal the hole in your heart, he will always watch over you, and be waiting for you, love , David and Kathy curtis
Peggy Aho - Brother and sister-in law
March 5, 2022, 4:12 pm
Dear Kathy, There are no words to ease what you truly feel. Death brings pain time can only heal. We know you will cherish your memories with Jerry. May God bless you and give you strength and courage to endure today. Love Arnie and Peggy