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John Paul Cagnetta went home to take his place in Heaven on August 2nd, 2024. He passed peacefully two weeks short of his ninety-second birthday.
Born and raised in Brooklyn NY, where he met his wife of 69 years, Rena (Ginocchio) at a dance, while he was earning a bachelor’s degree in chemistry at Brookly Polytechnic. After they married, they moved to Oak Ridge, Tennessee where John trained as a nuclear engineer as part of the Atoms for Peace Program. John then served in the US Army, achieving the rank of Captain. He was very proud of his service to our country. Upon completion of his service, they returned to Brooklyn where John received his doctorate in Chemical Engineering from Polytechnic University of New York. Eventually he accepted a position at Northeast Utilities in Connecticut, settling in Wethersfield where he and Rena raised their family. He rose to the leadership position of Sr. Vice President and attended the Harvard University Advanced Management Program. After retiring, John went on to become Dean of the School of Engineering at the University of Hartford. But his love for academics would not allow him to fully retire and he then became President of the Connecticut Academy of Science and Engineering.
Although he achieved much success and earned numerous titles in his professional life none of those meant as much to him as the titles of Husband, Father, Grandfather and Friend. His love, his quiet lessons, his smile, his laughter, changed the life of everyone who was fortunate enough to know him. He always put others first and his generosity knew few bounds. Often described as the “consummate gentlemen” John was soft spoken, humble and optimistic. He served as a mentor for numerous people in all walks of life and relished developing personal relationships. When he engaged you in conversation, he had a way of making you feel like the most important person in the room. He was truly a servant leader who set an amazing example of what it means to be a man. His quiet strength, faith in God, and love of family and country inspired others to follow his example.
John loved being active and he played golf, skied and traveled extensively. He and his wife Rena spent their retirement years in Vero Beach Florida where he exercised regularly until he was close to ninety.
John leaves behind his wife of 69 years Rena with whom he shared three children, six grandchildren and four great grandchildren.
His family would like to thank the staff and caregivers at Sonata Senior Living, Garden View Health and Rehabilitation and VNA Hospice of Vero Beach for the loving care they provided him.
In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Visiting Nurse Association & Hospice Foundation Inc. www.vnatc.org
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
The wardwells - Friends
August 5, 2024, 5:13 pm
He truly was a gentleman and a scholar. He was always interested in what you had to say. We feel blessed to have known him
Mimi Cagnetta
August 6, 2024, 2:26 am
My thoughts and cares are with you. So sorry for your loss.
Mary TellisNayak - Friend of son
August 6, 2024, 6:09 am
John. What a beautiful tribute to your father. You were very fortunate to have such an amazing example in your life. I feel your pain. Remember “Grief is the price of love”Mary Tellis Nayak
Donna Bouffard - Friend
August 6, 2024, 10:06 am
Thinking of all of you. So sorry for your loss. ❤️❤️
Jill Huff - Friend & caregiver
August 6, 2024, 1:24 pm
I will forever cherish the times with John , such a kind , gentle soul Who loved his ice cream !!! Rena , Susan , Jess and the whole family, your Sonata family is here for you !! John will truly be missed ❤️
Nancy Madsen Cummings - Friend of daughter Laurie
August 6, 2024, 2:06 pm
Laurie and family,I am so sorry for your loss. I so remember his calm presence and demeanor when visiting your wonderful home in Wethersfield. Sending lots of love.
Bill and Peg Kelly - Friends and neighbors
August 6, 2024, 9:33 pm
I am going to cherish all the good times we had on and off the golf course as well as all the fun times you, Rena, Peg and l had together as neighbors
Iris Arenson-Fuller - Former adoption agency director
August 7, 2024, 4:17 am
My condolences to the family and especially to Laurie, John and Julia. I heard so many wonderful things about your Dad and Grandpa and am sorry I never got an opportunity to meet him.
Diane and Jarry Miller - Friends
August 8, 2024, 10:22 pm
Our condolences to Rena and family. I am going to miss the times we had golfing and socializing together.
Hemchandra Shertukde - Colleague at UHART
August 12, 2024, 4:13 pm
Rest In Peace my friend. We (Rekha and I) will miss you dearly. Hem