Date of Service:
June 22, 2024
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Thomas Joseph Aspromonte, 73 of Vero Beach, Florida passed away unexpectedly on June 9th, 2024.
Tom was born on March 20th, 1951, in Hackensack, New Jersey to Salvatore and Carmella Aspromonte.
Tom is a graduate of Fair Lawn High School class of 1969. Following graduation, he furthered his passion for cars by working for numerous car dealerships and various roles including mechanic, service advisor, and sales in New Jersey and Florida including Volvo, BMW, Cadillac, and Honda.
Tom met his wife Cindy and they married in August of 1986. They started their life together and began their family in Fair Lawn, New Jersey and then in 1995, they chose their forever home in Vero Beach, Florida.
He leaves behind his wife Cindy, daughters, Chrissy and Lana, and son, Max. He is also survived by his sister, Debbie and Brother-In- Law, John Ribardo, nephew, Johnny Ribardo, Aunt Anne Luppino, and many cousins.
Tom is joining his son, Anthony, his father and mother, and his sister Roz in heaven.
Tom was awarded a lifetime member of the Italian American Club of Vero Beach, where he served as president for several years. Tom made a friend any place he went and will be greatly missed by all that knew and loved him.
A celebration of life will be held at Christ Fellowship in Vero Beach, Florida on Saturday the 22nd of June at 11:00 am.
Donations can be made to the Italian American Civic Association in Vero Beach, Florida in memory of Tom or to a charity of your choice
Arrangements are by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.
© 2024 Lowther Funeral Home. All Rights Reserved.
Brittaney R - Family friend
June 13, 2024, 3:28 pm
Tom was an incredibly warm man that made everyone feel like family. He will be deeply missed.
Pat DiGeorge - Italian American Club
June 13, 2024, 4:57 pm
John and I will miss seeing Tom at the Italian American Club. He was a strong leader and enthusiastic supporter. Our deepest condolences to Cindy and the entire family.
Dolores Gaynor - Friend
June 13, 2024, 5:15 pm
dear Cindy and family, I am shocked to hear of the passing of Tom. He was a wonderful, friendly, happy helpful person I’ve known for 16 years. You have my sincere sympathy and may God be with you all at this sad time . Dolores Gaynor
Gary Voller
June 13, 2024, 5:30 pm
We only met Tom a couple years back at the Italian American Club but he was a welcoming and friendly soul who made you feel like you’d known him your whole life. Really nice guy and will be missed. Condolences to Tom’s family and friends. Gary & Carol Voller/Vero Beach
Stacey Luppino - Cousin
June 13, 2024, 5:55 pm
Tommy was more than just a cousin; he was a beacon of kindness and love in all our lives. His smile would light up any room, and his caring nature made everyone around him feel cherished. Whether it was lending a helping hand or offering a listening ear, Tommy’s selflessness was evident in everything he did. His sudden passing leaves a void that words can hardly express, but his memory will forever be a source of comfort and inspiration. I wI’ll always remember Tommy for the incredible person he was. RIP
Randy/Donna Hedgecock - Friends
June 13, 2024, 7:19 pm
Cindy, Chrissie, Lana and Max..We are so sorry to hear of Tom’s unexpected passing. We send our love and condolences. Randy and Donna Hedgecock
Corey Wilson - Friend
June 14, 2024, 1:14 am
Cindy and Family, we send our condolences and love. Tom was such a special person and always made us feel welcome. We were lucky to know him he was such a happy person. We will miss him. Our prayers to you and your family , Maria and Corey Wilson
Mike Gennaro - friend
June 14, 2024, 7:03 pm
I will miss Tom forever. We met in our teens and those bonds are incredibly strong. No one could ever make me laugh harder than Tom.
Larry and Sandy Singer - Friend
June 15, 2024, 12:13 pm
Dear Cindy, We are so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. We are in shock and still cannot believe it. We always enjoyed our times at the club, especially since Tom and you were so much a part of it. Stay strong for you and the family, Tom will always be at your side. Love, Larry and Sandy Singer
Sandra Stampone Burdulis - Cousin
June 16, 2024, 12:49 pm
I was so sorry to hear about Tom. Even though we were states apart and hadn’t seen each other in many years, he still kept in touch throughout the years. He was a thoughtful and sweet guy. I’ll miss you “CUZ” and will always cherish our childhood memories.
Dawnmarie Spencer - Friend
June 16, 2024, 8:07 pm
Tom welcomed me with open arms at the Legion. He gave me confidence I didn’t know I had. He was such a great man and a family man. There is SUCH a great loss here. Rest easy, I’m SO proud to call you my friend !! Cindy & family, my heartfelt condolences to you all. May He rest in peace ❤️
Aston Kinsey - Friend.
June 17, 2024, 3:39 am
Aston/ Matsi Kinsey friends. We met Tom and his family after joining the Italian American Club. Much respected and will be sorely missed. RIP our friend.
Patricia Aliotti - Friend
June 17, 2024, 10:25 am
As new members of this community, “The Prez” made me and my son feel warmly welcome. He was a source of support in our getting established, and Tom holds a special place in our hearts. His memory will always be a happy one! Much love, blessings and comfort surround his family from our compassionate Heavenly Father through Christ.
Bob Heck - cousin
June 17, 2024, 1:08 pm
We were so saddened to hear about Tommy. Recently we exchanged several text messages and he shared many great photos along with memories of years past. Being so close as we grew up, we had so many good times, so many laughs, so many things to remember when thoughts of him come to mind. He was kind, thoughtful and caring and will surely be missed by many and all will certainly hold the memory of him close to their hearts. Gail and I extend our deepest sympathy to Cindy, Chrissy, Max and Lana and to Debbie, John and Johnny. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Timothy L Ball - Friend
June 17, 2024, 1:48 pm
Cindy & family, we were so sad to learn of Tom’s sudden passing. We were instantly impressed by how welcoming and gracious he was each time we attended the Italian American Club. Tom immediately earned respect by everyone he met because of his sincere & warm personality. It was apparent how much he loved his family. He was truly a good man! Claudia and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Carolyn Miranda - Friend
June 17, 2024, 3:13 pm
Dear Cindy and Family, There are no words of condolence that can describe your loss only ones offering love, strength and prayer and those I send you. I’ll always remember his words at the Italian American Club, “you’re here so much why aren’t you joining”, and thanks to him, I gladly did. He will always be there in thought.
Marta - Friend
June 18, 2024, 12:48 pm
Sincerest heartfelt condolences to you and the children Cindy. My heart goes out to all of you. May God comfort you with strength and cherished memories always. He will be missed by many
Michele and Al Klager - Friend
June 20, 2024, 3:16 pm
We loved Tommy from the moment we met him. He was so friendly, funny, and caring. You don’t meet many men like that anymore. We are proud to call him friend. Our condolences and love to his wife Cindy and family. He will be deeply missed.
Jaycee - Friend
June 20, 2024, 11:37 pm
A good man has gone to join his son in heaven. May everyone up there enjoy his fun personality and humor as we did.
Ellen - Friends
June 22, 2024, 6:35 am
I’m so very sorry for the loss of Tommy. As a high school friend of Debbie’s, I was fascinated by Tommy’s endless shenanigans. He was always smiling and full of life. I know he will be missed
Joan DiPaola Tutt - Italian American Club
June 24, 2024, 10:45 pm
June 24, 2024 Dear Cindy and Family, My sincerest and heartfelt condolences on the passing on your wonderful husband and father. He was always upbeat and welcomed me into the Italian American Club, not just initially, but every time I saw him. One of my favorite memories is seeing Cindy and Tom dance together at the club. They made a beautiful couple and made me happy just to watch them. Will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Joan DiPaola Tutt