Philip “PJ” F. Dispensa, Jr.

Philip “PJ” F. Dispensa, Jr.

April 18, 1991 ~ January 08, 2021


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Philip “PJ” F. Dispensa, Jr., age 29, of Vero Beach, passed away on Friday, January 8, 2021.

PJ was born in Valhalla, New York on April 18, 1991.  He had resided in Kingston, New York prior to moving to Vero Beach.

PJ was a graduate of Brookside School, Cottekill, New York.

He is survived by his loving parents, Philip F. Dispensa, Sr. and Doreen Lee Dispensa; sisters, Brittany Dispensa and Melissa Dispensa; brother, Thomas (Jaime) Schaefer; and nephew, Andruw Schaefer.

Memorial contributions in PJ’s name, may be made to Brookside School, 11 Tanhouse Brook Rd., Cottekill, New York 12419.

Arrangements by Thomas S. Lowther Funeral Home & Crematory, Vero Beach.


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Debbie saracino - Aunt

January 12, 2021, 4:37 pm

You were loved by us very much & we will miss your beautiful smile & being with us!

Brittany Torelli - Friend

January 12, 2021, 4:59 pm

You were such a great kid!!! I loved taking care of you and being a part of your family. You were always so happy, ill never forget your huge smile.

Kathy Olmo Williams - Friend

January 12, 2021, 6:13 pm

Doreen so sorry for loss, my prayers for you and your family in this time of need.

Kathy and jack Boughton - Friends

January 12, 2021, 6:51 pm

Doreen and Phil I’m so sorry for your loss

Laura Parker - Friend

January 12, 2021, 10:12 pm

You were your mom’s world… My heart goes out to the family… Prayers <3

kathleen cirillomueller - Friend

January 12, 2021, 10:19 pm

Doreen and Phil and family, our deepest sympathy at your loss. Our thoughts are with you. All our Eric and Cathy.

Bev pitt - Family friend

January 12, 2021, 11:13 pm

His life was a beautiful gift to his family ,You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen and Doug Van Gieson - Cousin

January 13, 2021, 1:28 pm

Phil and Doreen, We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Kim Wheeler - Friends

January 13, 2021, 3:09 pm

My family sends our deepest condolences to Melissa and family. Prayers sent to you all.

Holly Manning - Brookside

January 13, 2021, 5:34 pm

Doreen and Phil, Bigga hugs to you both. You can always tell where a beautiful soul has been by the tears and the smiles left behind. He was a gentle soul and he will forever have a place in my heart.

Jessica Thibodeau Reynolds - Friend

January 13, 2021, 5:48 pm

Doreen,Phil & Family, We are so very sorry for your loss. No words can ever, give you the comfort you truly deserve, or ease the grief. But know you have our thoughts and Prayers! Love & Hugs

Aggie and Santo Laquidara - Cousin

January 13, 2021, 8:37 pm

With Deepest Sympathy we would like to send our Condolences to Phil, Doreen, Melissa, Brittany and his brother Thomas. Pj was a strong remarkable young man. Thinking and Prayers with all our love Aggie, Santo and family.

Diane Black - Friend

January 14, 2021, 4:54 pm

PJ was a sweetheart and I know he’s in Heaven watch over you, Doreen and Phil. I pray he visits you in your dreams. Prayers for comfort and peace.

Katie Hare - Friend

January 15, 2021, 12:46 am

So sorry for your loss.. my heart hurts – Thinking of your whole family <3

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